My core beliefs #1: Humans and value
As humans, we have intrinsic value. We exist, we take space, we don't need to demonstrate it.
Every human has the same value.
People tend to forget that. They easily associate a human's value to their outcomes, achievements, money, relationships, properties, speed, success, influence.
At this point, the person A compares their value, based on these params, against the person B's value, that's the comparison trap.
But every human has the same value. So comparison among humans has no reason to exist.